Compassionate Support for Partners Dealing with Compulsive Sexual Behavior (CSB)

A significant part of my practice focuses on rebuilding trust and emotional intimacy between individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behavior (CSB) and their partners. I understand how devastating this situation can be for you. Unlike other addictions, CSB can impact you in a deeply personal way, leading to feelings of betrayal, hurt and confusion

Understanding Your Experience

Discovering your partner’s CSB can be traumatic and life-changing. You might find yourself comparing to those your partner has been involved with, leading to a profound impact on your self-esteem and emotional well-being.

Common reactions include:

• Feelings of Betrayal: Questioning the trust and foundation of your relationship.
• Emotional Turmoil: Experiencing anger, sadness, shame or guilt.
• Hypervigilance: Becoming a detective, checking emails, messages or searching for evidence.
• Self-Doubt: Feeling “crazy” or doubting your perceptions due to denial from your partner.

Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy

If you choose to work on rebuilding your relationship, therapy can assist both you and your partner in:

• Open Communication: Facilitating honest and transparent dialogues.
• Understanding CSB: Gaining insight into compulsive sexual behavior and its effects.
• Developing Empathy: Encouraging mutual understanding and support.
• Creating Healthy Intimacy: Working toward a fulfilling emotional and physical connection.

You’re Not Alone

The journey through this challenging time can feel isolating but support is available. Many partners have found hope and healing through therapy, moving toward a place of strength and resilience.

Remember:

• Your Partner’s Behavior Is Not Your Fault: CSB is not about what you are or are not. Don’t internalize this misconception.
• Healing Takes Time: Grieving and recovery are processes that require patience and compassion.
• Professional Support Matters: Working with a therapist experienced in CSB is crucial for effective healing.

Healing Begins with You

It’s natural to believe that if your partner stops their behavior, you’ll feel better. However, your healing is equally important and requires its own attention. You cannot “fix” your significant other but you can take steps toward your own recovery.

My therapy focuses on:

• Processing Grief: Acknowledging the loss of the relationship you thought you had.
• Rebuilding Self-Worth: Addressing the impact on your self-esteem and identity.
• Coping Strategies: Developing healthy ways to manage overwhelming emotions.
• Setting Boundaries: Establishing what you need for your sense of safety and security.

Specialized Therapy for Partners in Beverly Hills

Located in Beverly Hills, I offer specialized therapy for partners of individuals struggling with CSB. With extensive experience, including working in leading sex addiction clinics in Los Angeles, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore your feelings and begin the healing process.

Rebecca Ishida, MA, MFT

My therapeutic style combines empathy with a direct, solution-focused approach. Together, we’ll set achievable goals and work collaboratively toward your desired outcomes. I am honored to share in your journey, whether you’re navigating difficulties or striving toward your dreams.

I hold a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of California, Santa Barbara, and a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University. Licensed since 2000, I am a member of CAMFT (California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists).

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